dedication

a place of honor

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starbreaker.org is for myself, first and foremost: the boy I had been, who had needed something like this and never found it. So I built it myself.

starbreaker.org is for my wife of over 25 years, Madam Catastrophy. I probably could have done all of this on my own, but it would have been harder, and rather less fun.

starbreaker.org is for Sophie Lancaster, Nex Benedict, RenĂŠe Nicole Good, Brandon Teena, Alex Pretti, Trayvon Martin, Matthew Shepard, Byuu/Near and entirely too many others whose lives were stolen for them for no greater crime than their difference or their defiance. Their blood, shed unjustly, waters the Tree of Liberty.

starbreaker.org is for every kid like me who had wanted nothing more than to roast bratwurst over the smoldering ruins of the village had that failed to embrace them, yet never yielded to the impulse to start the fire themselves because they understood that the fire would burn the innocent and the guilty alike. Unlike the demon Yahweh, we chose to spare the Sodoms and Gomorrahs in which we had been raised.

starbreaker.org is for the others: the divergent, the defiant, the queer, the non-binary, the non-conforming — those unwanted and unwelcome in society.

starbreaker.org is for the trans folks, dead or alive. I am not one of you, but I see you. I hear you. I rage beside you, and I say trans rights.

I say this, too: Trans women are real women. Trans men are real men. They are, if anything, more real than cisgender people because they chose their gender instead of accepting the one assigned to them, and they had to bloody well work for it.

I see them all, and I say that they have every right to exist.

starbreaker.org is for the sons and daughters of Adam and Lilith. It is for the lovers. It is for the defiant. It is for the veterans of a thousand psychic wars. It is for those who would dare storm Heaven and force God to answer for His sins at swordpoint. It is for you: if you dare to turn your back on Omelas, banish Christ from your heart, and wear your independence like a crown — then you are welcome in my Union of Egoists.

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